😮Too much Sex

Is there any such thing as too much Sex?

Each person’s definition of a good sex life is different, and while some people are perfectly fine to rarely have sex, others prefer to have it multiple times a day.

Still, you might be wondering if it’s possible to have too much sex. Whether you’re in the honeymoon phase with a new partner, on vacation enjoying getaway sex, thanks to all that extra free time, or point-blank love having a lot of sex, you might wonder how much is too much for your body and mind to handle. 

The good news is that there is no such thing as too much sex as long as both you and your spouse are happy and comfortable. Is it acceptable to have sex more than three times every day? Yes, you and your lover are free to have sex as often as you want throughout the day. As long as no one is being pressured to have sex more than they want to, there's nothing wrong with having sex as often as it feels right for you and your partner.

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Happiness and Relationships

I had a conversation some time ago that in terms of relationships, a person might be unhappy or miserable without a partner in their life. This view was of such terrible quality and taste that it made me doubt it. Is joy an inside job or, does it depend on what someone in your life does or does not do? Why is it attached to whether or not you are in a relationship? Can a person not be happy by themselves? What does any individual apart from you have to do with your buzz? While I would prefer not to touch on the fact that there are countless relationships out there in quiet despair; I would love to say this:

There is happiness in so many subjects. And we all can find it outside of relationships. A relationship is not the path to happiness. It's not exciting to stay in a relationship when you have strong intuitive indicators that you should quit. Latching onto someone who is blatantly disrespectful and abusive, isn't the right choice. Staying with someone who deliberately disregards your needs and wishes would not make you smile. Hanging around someone with no integrity and honor for years should not cut it. Can you trust that person to do the right thing when you're not looking? These questions are major keys and can keep you on the track to endless bliss if you ponder on them. 

It may be difficult to know the answers but actions speak louder. Why stay? Because you don't want to be or cannot be alone? It's hard to start over? You're embarrassed to be alone? To give the appearance that everything is fine? Even when you know that it's a mess, you stay to make it seem like you're winning. Should a person stay in a relationship with someone who treats them terribly and continues to hurt them for fear of being sad, alone, and miserable? Is that what you deserve? This is the definition of unhappiness. I'm not saying to control or manipulate anyone in staying with you. If you are aiming to do so, your head is in the wrong place.

The foundation of your joy should come from WITHIN, not a lifeline from anyone else. My suggestion to anyone who says to you, "I'm sad without you" or "I'm nothing without you," is to run! It is not a compliment. Don't be flattered by it. With that statement, you are now responsible for this person's emotional state and, you can maneuver their feelings based on your behavior. It would be a burden you would have to carry for the duration of the union. You can mess them up when the conditions change. Is it more enjoyable to be in a relationship with someone who is emotionally unstable or someone who demonstrates emotional intelligence in all they do? It's preferable to align with someone who loves themselves first and doesn't require you to fill that void. Don't be afraid to make the right choice for yourself. If your happiness depends on what anyone else does you're in deep doo-doo.

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ORGASMS - Is it that serious?💦

Yes! It is a touchy and sensitive topic but, anyone who cares about their sexual satisfaction would take orgasms seriously. Whether it's pleasuring yourself or working with your partner, you have to be intentional about hitting the spots that bring you closer to the big O.

Orgasms are important, and sadly, a lot of persons have yet to experience one. It can happen by having an open mindset, patience, and sex education. We can be satisfied and achieve orgasm through partner sex or solo sex. Partner sex is when you want sex with another person and, solo sex is when you want sex with yourself. Both ways are OKAY. One way can be more reliable than the other as every person is different. Both are amazing when done right and, everyone deserves both. 

You are worth the research. Several platforms allow you to learn and explore your sexuality so, go ahead and get the information and support you need to sort yourself out. Because you deserve the heightened pleasure of an amazing cum.  

And remember, If It doesn't bring you income, inspiration, or orgasms, it doesn't belong in your life. 😜

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You Can't Help Who You Love 💕

It is hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone if your heart still does. “You can’t help who you love.” Some say it’s an excuse used when we love the wrong person. Is that the case? I'm not implying that just because you can't help but love someone that you're in a horrible relationship. What many don’t know or fail to acknowledge is that love is a choice. Love happens to us if we open ourselves to it. So that’s where the decision begins. The choice to love starts at two stages in the process. It comes before and after we fall in love: Before, when we can choose which people to meet and date, and after when we can choose whether to continue seeing them or break it off.

Of course, sometimes feelings take you by surprise, and in even rarer cases this may happen mutually, become stronger, and potentially irresistible.

Much of romance and love is out of our control. As important as it is to recognize this, it’s just as important to acknowledge the choices we do have. We are responsible to ourselves to make these choices well, which is especially difficult in an area of our lives that is defined by emotion.

We don’t want to be completely rational about love and romance. I'm saying that if we can achieve the right balance of emotion and reason, as well as recognize when we should exert control and when we should love freely, we can steer our love lives away from inappropriate entanglements and disastrous people, and enjoy all the joy, warmth, and intimacy we deserve.

Are you walking around thinking that you’re just going to accidentally fall in love one day? Nobody accidentally falls in love.

You do meet people, and while chemistry, attraction, and emotional connection can hit quickly, you can help who you love. Love is indeed a choice. That choice is 100% yours.

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Decide to constantly spice up your sex life.🔥

Your spark is in there somewhere. There comes a time in any relationship, regardless of how happy you both are, that the sex component can take a dip. Whether it's hormonal, stress-related, or you've just been with the same partner for so long that no amount of pillow talk or date nights will make you want to get intimate. When things get a little boring in the boudoir, though, there are ways to spice things up.

There's nothing wrong with being open about your sexuality. In any relationship, variety is really vital. Find unique ways to make your time in the bedroom or anywhere else with your companion more enjoyable. I'm not suggesting you abandon your old faves, but you should mix it up now and then. Of course, stick to the tried-and-true recipes, but add a twist by including a new ingredient. Doing the opposite of what you usually do can feel exciting. It maintains the sense of anticipation between you two.

What you want to do is agitate your partner's insides and keep them hot even while you're separated. When you're not together, there's nothing like reliving a passionate moment from the night before and exclaiming, "Oh my Gosh, about last night." Your mind goes...hmm hmm. This will not only spice things up, but it will also inspire your partner to perform much better, and he or she will want to satisfy you all of the time. And that is for everything.

You’re probably used to taking it all off when you have sex, but leaving something on—from a fierce pair of heels to a sweet string of pearls—getting almost naked can bring out your sexy side. Men, try going commando, and unzip your jeans!

It's great to switch locations. Have sex on the kitchen counter. Get it on in the hallway. Do it on the couch or in your bedroom closet. It doesn’t matter where, just pick a place that isn’t your usual spot. The new smells, sounds, lighting, and textures will help keep your sex life on its toes. Have a faux affair with your partner. Plan a date with your significant other and act like you’re meeting up with your lover, while you both pretend to leave your partners at home. Use your imagination! According to intimacy experts, part of the reason why couples cheat is to feel more sexually uninhibited, so who knows where a faux affair can lead you. Even prepping for it may make you hot with anticipation. There are so many ways to love each other to keep the fire burning. Be determined to keep that spark.

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Small & Powerful 💪 Short & Sweet🔥

"Things are not always what they seem; the first appearance deceives many; the intelligence of a few perceives what has been carefully hidden." -Phaedrus

I'm just dropping by with a small but meaningful bit of inspiration to help you get through the week. Some of you may be going through a difficult time right now for whatever reason, but I want you to be encouraged and keep an open mind about just how and who will guide and assist you on your journey. Life happens to us all. Too often, we stay shut to the endless possibilities of how our desires can come to us. Choose to be open and feel more optimistic.

 

Our eyes are uncovered when we are open-minded, and we see what has been carefully hidden, including significant lessons. Then we discover that things were not what we thought. Take a deep breath and smile. Every thing will fall in place. 

 

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For the Love of Sex and Relationships 😻

So your relationship is perfect. No conflict, secure connection, fireworks, steamy sex, sparks all the time, and fun, right? I would love to hang around your inner clown, but this doesn't exist every day. Many common problems affect couples constantly. Everyone gets emotionally triggered for different reasons, and it's best to understand your triggers to have a healthy relationship with your partner. It could be something that was said, an unfair situation, financial stress, or even just a simple conflict in beliefs. When you’re triggered by someone else’s words or actions, you might be left feeling hurt, disappointed, or on edge. And it's sometimes more painful when it's your spouse. Do you feel like you know what makes you feel triggered? Then it is a wise thing to communicate and express it.

Relationships aren't easy, but far too many couples throw in the towel on their relationship prematurely, only to repeat the same dysfunctional patterns in their next hookup. The truth is, most couples are capable of a thriving and long-term union if they're both committed to working on it. In addition, getting some feedback can work wonders in educating and giving support. Simple keys can help couples see things from varying perspectives. Every bit of information is powerful. So, I've connected with some brilliant romance writers in the business to share their best relationship tips that would stimulate individuals to be the best person and loving partner they could be. Let's meet the authors and slide into our very first tip:

💕 Author: A.L.Dawn French

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"One word, RESPECT. You respect a woman and she will automatically love you."

💕 Author: Louise Murchie

 

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"Communication- Listening is the biggest battle; I mean, really listening to your partner and yourself. So is helping them find solutions to their problems that they can go and do. Good communication is empowering, not a dictatorship."

                      💕 Author: Sibylla Matilde

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"If you're tempted by your ex, masturbate first. You might just be thirsty." 

💕 Author: Ranatta Philip

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"You are individuals first then you are a couple. You should each be whole people with your own exciting lives, and then choose to share your life with the other."

💕 Author: Zoey Vaughn

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"Embrace the differences in your relationship as an opportunity to learn and grow rather than a wedge that separates you and your partner."

                   💕 Author: Dyrion Knight

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"Stay grateful. In life and in love, it is all too easy to get complacent. But gratitude is powerful, and as long as you take the time to remain grateful for all you have, including the love you have chosen, we are on the right track. Not every day will be exciting or easy, but if you stay grateful for the good times, you will make an effort to create more good times."

Remember that all relationships are unique so, don't compare yours with others. Try not to be hard on yourself. Have fun, create wonderful memories, and have awesome sex!

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